Scattering Ashes and Cremation: FAQs and Myth-Busting Guide
Cremation is a process surrounded by many questions and myths. Whether you’re planning for yourself or a loved one, understanding the facts can help you make informed decisions. Below, we address some of the most common questions about ashes and cremation, dispelling myths along the way.
1. Are Ashes Good for the Soil?
Ashes from cremation have minimal impact on the soil when spread thinly and evenly. They are not toxic and contain phosphate, which can act as a fertilizer in small amounts. However, spreading too many ashes in one area can cause problems due to their sodium content, which is about 1% and can be harmful in large doses. If you plan to use ashes in your garden, consider using products like the Living Urn, which mixes ashes with soil for a balanced composition.
2. Are the Ashes I Receive from Cremation Only from One Person?
Yes, in the UK, only one person is cremated at a time, with strict regulations ensuring this practice. The only exception is in the tragic case of a mother and child who have died during childbirth.
3. Is the Coffin Burned with the Body?
Yes, the coffin is cremated along with the body in the UK. This is a legal requirement, debunking the myth that the coffin is removed before cremation. If you choose cremation, it’s important to select a coffin that is appropriate for the process.
4. Are Human Ashes Acidic or Alkaline?
Human ashes are alkaline, primarily composed of mineral phosphate, which has a high pH level. This alkalinity is a natural result of the cremation process.
5. Are Cremation Ashes Real?
Yes, cremation ashes are real and consist mainly of the bones of the deceased. After cremation, larger bones like the thigh bone may remain mostly intact. These bones are processed, and any metals (like artificial joints) are removed before the remains are ground into the fine grey grit and dust that we commonly refer to as ashes.
6. Are Cremation Ashes Diamonds Real?
Yes, cremation diamonds, also known as memorial diamonds, are real. These diamonds are created through an industrial process that involves subjecting carbon from the ashes to high heat and pressure. The process is the same as that used to create industrial diamonds, making them genuine but expensive. The color of these diamonds can vary depending on the specific process used.
7. Are Ashes Interred or Interned?
The correct term is “interred,” which means to place a body or ashes in a grave, tomb, or columbarium. For example, “She was interred in the family grave.” The term “interred” is often confused with “interned,” but the latter refers to detainment or imprisonment.
8. Is Ashes Jewelry Faked?
Legitimate ashes jewelry is not faked. Reputable providers take great care to ensure that the ashes you provide are the ones used in the jewelry, and they handle them with the utmost respect. Always choose a trusted company to ensure authenticity.
9. What Color Are Cremation Ashes?
Cremation ashes are typically light grey, though individual grains within the ashes can vary in color, including white, grey, black, and brown. The specific color can depend on factors like the cremation process, temperature, and what the deceased was wearing during cremation. Occasionally, ashes can have a greenish tint if leather was present during the process.
10. What Happens to Unclaimed Cremation Ashes?
If ashes are unclaimed at a crematorium, they are typically scattered after attempts to contact the family. Some crematoriums may charge for holding onto ashes for an extended period. Funeral directors usually hold onto ashes indefinitely, though they may eventually scatter them if unclaimed.
11. Can I Scatter Ashes Anywhere?
In the UK, you can scatter ashes on land where you have permission from the landowner. Some organizations may allow scattering, while others do not. You are free to scatter ashes in your own garden if you choose. It’s essential to understand local regulations and obtain necessary permissions.
12. How Soon After the Service Is the Body Cremated?
The body is cremated as soon as possible after the service, often immediately if the cremator is available. If there is a queue, the cremation will typically take place within 24 hours.
13. Can I Witness the Cremation?
Yes, witnessing a cremation is possible, though it is less common in some cultures. In certain cultures, such as Hindu and Sikh communities, it is a common practice. If you wish to witness a cremation, you will need to request it in advance.
Conclusion
Understanding the facts about ashes and cremation can help dispel myths and provide clarity during a difficult time. Whether you’re planning a cremation or simply curious, knowing the truth ensures you make informed, respectful decisions.
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